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Nov 2, 20212 min read
My Husband Watches Female Professional Wrestling. Is That a Problem?
In this episode, Mark and Steve respond to a listener who asks a very important question about one of her spouse's favorite...
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Oct 26, 20211 min read
As an Addict, How Can You Move Past Your Defensiveness to Truly Connect With Your Spouse?
In this episode, Mark and Steve respond to a PBSE listener's sincere inquiry about HOW to move through his defensiveness in response to...
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Oct 19, 20212 min read
Has Your Addict Partner Truly "Forgotten" His Past Discretions OR is He "Gaslighting" You?
In this episode, Mark and Steve take on a PBSE listener's question about her husband's "claim of not being able to remember the details...
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Oct 12, 20211 min read
How Do I Overcome the Shame of My Past "Toxic Sex/Me-Centered" Behaviors?
In this episode Mark and Steve respond to a very heart-felt question by a PBSE listener— My wife and I recently listened to your episode...
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Oct 5, 20212 min read
Is My Partner Lying About His Porn Use? How Can I Know?
How do you know if your partner is telling you the truth about his porn use and other sexual behaviors? A PBSE listener recently...
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Sep 28, 20211 min read
How Can I Forgive a Man Who Has Spent Nearly Our Entire Marriage Lying?!
In this episode, Mark and Steve respond to a very heart-felt message and question from a PBSE listener: a spouse struggling to forgive...
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Sep 21, 20212 min read
How Do I Know if My Spouse is an Addict or Not?
In this episode, Mark and Steve address a common question submitted by a PBSE listener— I have listened to many episodes of your...
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Sep 14, 20211 min read
Unhealthy Relationships Can Help Fuel Porn Addiction—How Can You Move from Co-Dependency to Recovery
Growing up, a PBSE listener suffered from an abusive relationship with his father, which was a BIG factor in the development and ongoing...
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Sep 7, 20211 min read
When Your Partner is a Porn Addict, What Does “Healthy Connection” Look Like?
If your partner is a porn addict, is it even possible to have any level of "healthy connection"??? In this episode, Mark and Steve talk...
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Aug 31, 20211 min read
Does Recovery & Healing require we STOP Internet use, AVOID the Public and NEVER talk to Women?
When it comes to daily life and being subjected to a "sexualized culture," what are the "healthy boundaries" in sex/porn addiction...
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Aug 24, 20211 min read
Your Chosen Path of Sexual Experience—Healthy or Unhealthy? Connecting or Disconnecting?
In working with people all over the world, we often get questions from couples regarding what IS and what is NOT healthy and connecting...
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Aug 17, 20211 min read
You are Powerless to Control What He’s Thinking During Sex—or Any Other Time!
In this episode, Mark and Steve address a HUGE issue many partners struggle with. Here's how a PBSE listener expressed it— My question is...
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Aug 10, 20211 min read
Should I have Daily Sex with my Husband so He can Recover?
We know—this title is ridiculous!!! It's intended to be totally SARCASTIC! But it's in response to a lengthy, raw, heart-felt, super...
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Aug 3, 20211 min read
Feeling Stuck? Real Recovery & Healing REQUIRE a Trajectory!
When we're in porn addiction recovery; trying to heal from betrayal trauma; or yearning to mend our marriage—it's SO easy to get STUCK!...
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Jul 27, 20211 min read
After the Betrayal of Porn Addiction, Can We Ever Have “Healthy Sex”?
Since learning that my husband of 44 years has been addicted to porn our entire marriage, a floodgate of emotions continue to wash over...
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Jul 20, 20211 min read
Do You STINK at Setting and Enforcing Healthy Boundaries?!
A PBSE listener recently sent us this comment and request—You speak of the importance of establishing boundaries. While we understand...
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Jul 13, 20211 min read
Letting Go of Control & Manipulation to WORK Your Own Recovery!
In this episode Mark and Steve openly address a PBSE listener's questions about what to do with an addict spouse in recovery who still...
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Jul 6, 20211 min read
Navigating Summertime and Sex Addiction!
Summertime can be a HUGE trigger for porn addicts in recovery and for spouses healing from betrayal trauma! As individuals and as...
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Jun 29, 20211 min read
Let Go of "Emotional Wallowing" & Embrace "Vision & Meaning"
When we rely on "sheer motivation" to break out of porn addiction, this will easily plunge us into a pit where we become stuck in...
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Jun 22, 20211 min read
Father's Day—Addiction & Trauma Trigger or Healing Event?
There are MANY "triggers" that can impact and even derail addiction recovery and healing from betrayal trauma. One trigger that can...
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