In this episode Mark and Steve use the analogy of a unique little bird known as the "Bower Bird." HOW can we guys who are in recovery...

Your recovery and healing are always at risk of stagnation, burnout, boredom, overwhelm, relapse and other potential "disrupters." In...

Mark and Steve discuss why Self-Care is SO crucial to overcoming porn addiction, healing from betrayal trauma and mending your marriage....

In Episode 66, Mark and Steve explored the walls an addict spouse often throws up in defense against his betrayal-trauma-suffering spouse...

A BIG part of beginning to heal a marriage marred by pornography addiction, is for the addict spouse to provide a SAFE space for the...

In this episode, Mark and Steve respond to a recent email from a listener— “I’d like to know how is it that your wives were willing and...

In this episode, Mark and Steve openly address a common issue they faced in their own recoveries, and one they see often with their...

In this episode, Mark and Steve give listeners a window into what they've learned from their own recoveries and what they've experienced...

When a couple is working together through addiction recovery and healing betrayal trauma, it can be VERY difficult to understand the...

In this episode, Mark and Steve address a PBSE listener's heart-felt dilemma. After discovering her spouse's addiction to porn and...

In this episode, Mark and Steve address a questions submitted by a listener— "Can you discuss the dynamic of being the spouse of an...

In this episode, Mark and Steve address some very poignant questions submitted by a listener: "What do you do when the proof is in the...

In this episode, Mark and Steve address a recent question by a listener—a very honest, legitimate, excellent question— "Hi there, my...

In this episode, Mark and Steve talk raw and open about an extremely destructive behavior that porn addicts engage in with their...

In this episode Mark and Steve speak openly about what it took for them to get to the rock bottom place where they were ready to start...

It has been said, "We are only as sick as our secrets." Another way of coming at this would be: "Living in secrecy keeps our addiction...

Mental illness and addiction, as well as betrayal trauma, can be parallel struggles! And it can be very difficult to understand where one...

It's hard enough navigating through porn/sex addiction and betrayal trauma as adults! But what happens when we're raising kids at the...

We're all SO glad 2020 is over! In fact, we should all receive a t-shirt that reads, "I Survived 2020!" And we're all hoping 2021 will be...

Can you believe it—it's a NEW YEAR! And it's that infamous time again--New Year's Resolutions! In this episode Mark and Steve get real...